Hello, everyone! How’s everything? Today, I’m excited to share my thoughts on the drama It’s Okay to Not Be Okay, which has completely transformed the way K-dramas approach topics of mental health and emotional recovery.
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Premiering in 2020, this South Korean romantic comedy-drama series consists of 16 episodes, each running around 70 minutes, and can be found on Netflix. Developed by Jo Yong and directed by Park Shin-woo, this show breaks the mold of traditional rom-coms. It offers a beautifully crafted narrative about trauma, familial relationships, and the intricate journey of healing that unfolds when flawed individuals connect.
The series distinguishes itself through its striking visual storytelling, blending fairytale elements with gothic aesthetics that reflect the characters’ internal battles. What truly sets it apart is its treatment of mental health as not just a narrative tool, but as a genuine journey requiring time, compassion, and professional assistance.
The Caregiver’s Path: Learning to Accept Love
Moon Gang-tae (Kim Soo-hyun) serves as a caretaker in a psychiatric ward, having devoted his life to his autistic older brother, Sang-tae. Gang-tae represents the quintessential caregiver who has forgotten to put his own needs and aspirations first. His character development revolves around realizing that it’s okay to desire things for oneself, even when caring for someone who relies on you.
What is remarkable about Gang-tae’s character is how it highlights the hidden fatigue experienced by caregivers. He is not a saint; he is human. At times, he feels frustrated and dreams of escape, and the drama does not criticize him for these authentic feelings. His journey to embrace help and affection is as vital as any romantic subplot.
The Reclusive Author: Ko Moon-young’s Journey to Openness
Ko Moon-young (Seo Yea-ji) is an introverted children’s book author who initially presents as a femme fatale devoid of empathy for others. However, beneath her stylish attire and sharp remarks lies someone who was never taught the true essence of love and being loved. Her character growth marks one of the most gratifying transformations in K-drama history.
Moon-young’s literature serves as allegories for the episodes, with each fairytale mirroring the emotional states of the characters. Her journey from a person who takes to one who learns to give and compromise is beautifully portrayed. Seo Yea-ji’s performance adds depth to what could have easily been a flat